think about taking the pressure off a bit. it's likey 'the big one' will turn out to be 'the first big one', and you'll be planning a new trip as soon as you're back. Or even half way through your first trip!
You don't have to get everything right the first time out. Who's to say what's right anyway? Isn't that part of why your going anyway, because 'this' isn't right?
btw, it turns you into a gibbering wreck when you get back
I think we're all born ready, we just forget.
have a good one.
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