Hello all,

Many thanks for all the advice, it's been great to read about everyone's experiences and views and opinions.

Here is an update:

It took a long time but my girlfriend eventually realised that my motorbike interest was going to be more than just a fad and has now accepted it!!

I make a point to email her when I get in to work so that she won't worry I have had an accident :-)

I am still riding a Yamaha YBR-125 and absolutely love riding it, despite its reputation as a dull bike. I have been commuting with it for almost a year and still look forward to the end of the day so that I can go on my 30 min journey back home.

I passed CBT in June (if I remember correctly) and am currently deciding between going for a DAS course or just get a restricted license (doing the test on my 125cc). Cost plays a big part in this, as the DAS would set me back at least £500. I am planning to get my license before summer is over.

Last week I handed in my notice at work (mundane office job as a marketing manager), I have saved some money that will cover the mortgage for a while and will take it easy for as long as I can... I definitely am looking to travel and have been inspired by both German touring magazines (less speed-centric than the general UK bike magazines) and of course the Horizons DVD.

Now I just need to decide on a bike, I guess it all depends on which license I end up with. I've been thinking of a shorter European trip to begin with, probably riding from London to Sweden to see my parents.

So as it happens my girlfriend has come to accept my new interest and the plans I have for the next few years, and in the end she has proven very understanding, being fine with me "just taking it easy and doing my thing" for the next year or so.

Best,
Toby