World Shortest Fairy Tale
Once upon a time, a girl asked a guy, "Will you marry me?"
The guy said, "NO!"
And the guy lived happily ever after and rode motorcycles and went fishing and hunting and played golf a lot and drank  and scotch and left the toilet seat up and farted whenever he wanted.
THE END
A friend sent me that a while after I got back from my last bike trip, it cracked me up.
For some semi-serious advice, it can be very hard to choose between the predicable reality of the known and the endless promise of the unknown. One is a fairly predictable path of a life with a person you have grew with for a few years and the other is the unknown outcome of a path with no clear direction.
Rarely do people regret the learning and changes that come from such a long journey.
Occasionally they do regret the cost of the journey, which is usually a relationship.
A good place to start is to question how important is she to you. The people here will be able to provide some insight into how important their trips have been to them. From there you get to make the unenviable task of determining whether the cost is worth the benefit.
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