Yes I am not saying do not help out gust do it on the sly. Like when all the kids go inside at night. A new ball on the field in the morning or play a bit with them and "forget" the new ball or tell them it is to big for you to take. Or as a payment or thank you to a person or family. Or as gift to a school or church. None of this will make begging kids at the road every time bike runs buy. Just as not bribing the cops but giving him a cigar may make one of your problems go away.
Think we all have been humbled by the giving of the poor.
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