I've got a fast responce from RAC. It looks like we have another hero there who deals with CdP when Paul is not there.
As you all stated it is possible to get the deposit when the carne is not stamped.
Here is the e-mail:
Dear Dr Unverdi,
Sorry to hear of the difficulties you have encountered.
Firstly, please can you confirm where the vehicle is now - your emails to Paul Gowen state it's in Greece but you now say Turkey.
With regards the Carnet document. Was the Carnet stamped by Turkish Customs when you entered the country ? If so, then the Certificate of Location will definitely need to be stamped by them if the vehicle is staying in that country. If not, then no stamps are required in the Carnet and it can be returned to us.
However, and you may already have this in hand, if you are going to dispose of (eg, sell or scrap) the vehicle in Turkey then you have to declare your intentions to the Turkish Customs - there may well be tax/duites to be paid.
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