I don't know if this will work, but it did the job on my old VF400 18 odd years ago...
I bent the feeler gauges into almost a "Z" shape, to get them into the head, then under the tappet. Sounds brutal, but I only used the gauges for the valve and plug clearances, and different ones at that.
I also bent a cheap bicycle spoke key, into a similair shape. This fitted nicely. The spoke nipple must have been the same size across the flats as the tappet adjuster. This meant I could hold the adjuster from the back, giving me enough room to get my open end spanner onto the lock nut at the front.
Perfect!