First question that came to mind is, do the parents know? I suspect they do if a court has anything to do with it. It's really best left to the powers that be. The other girl is over 18 and able to travel and I suspect you're being a little over protective. Unless you're known to the family - I'm guessing you're not - I'd save myself money, time (and sanity) and steer clear. I say this as a father of three grown-up daughters who still gets blind-sided on a regular basis.
Just my thoughts for what they're worth. Best wishes.
I've a feeling I'm not in Kansas anymore.
Last edited by teflon; 22 Jul 2010 at 14:16.