Everyone will tell you a different figure!! But what you say seems about right. If they are too low they will wear out on the outer edges of the tyre (and they'll get hot). If they are too high then you'll wear out the centre of the tyre. Pump them up to the pressures you've said then take a look at them 1000 miles later and see how they are wearing and adjust accordingly.
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